Being in society constitutes many inner forces. All organisms have the instinct to survive and humans are no different. There are no patterns or sets of rules. One needs to see themselves as part of it instead of something you need to survive. What the mass will believe in, tends to become the truth in society. Do you have to survive your life to live? There are plenty of reasons to live instead of survive. We can meet any goals we set, we can set goals for the best quality of life that we can live. Competing for jobs is now natural, we all have to go out into the market and make a name for ourselves. In a society where everyone is eagerly waiting to witness your breakdown and less than a handful of people care about you. Do not overthink about anything, ignore the shit and inner forces this society subjects you to. Once you chose hope anything is possible.